My Stool Is Very Dark

The Power of the Word

Words have power

The language directs our thoughts to specific directions and, in some way, helps us to create our reality, powering or limiting our possibilities. The ability to use language accurately is essential to good communication.
1. Beware of the word "NO". The phrase containing NO, to be understood, brings to mind what is next to it. NO exists only in the language and not in experience. For example: Think of "NO" ... Nothing comes to mind. Now, I ask you, DO NOT THINK IN THE RED ... I asked you not to think of the color red and you probably thought. Try to speak positively, say what you want and not what you do not want, for example, a person says to another, "Do not touch my computer, I should say something like ... "On my computer the only thing that touches me," or "You're forbidden to touch my computer."
2. Beware of the word "BUT" that negates everything that came before. For example: "Peter is a smart boy, worked, BUT ..." Replaces BUT by Y, where appropriate.
3. Beware of the word "TRY", which presupposes the possibility of failure. For example: "I will try to meet you tomorrow at 8." In other words: There is a good chance you fail, it will "try." Make it avoids TRY!
4. Beware of "BEE" or "NO ACHIEVEMENT ", which give an idea of \u200b\u200bpersonal inadequacy. Use COULD NOT or fails, it assumes that you will achieve, that you are able.
5. Beware the words" SHOULD "," have to "or" NEED "that assume that something external controls your life. Instead of using them LOVE YOU, DECIDE, VOY.
6. Talk about problems or negative descriptions of yourself, using the past tense. This frees the mind. For example, " I had difficulty in doing this ... "
7. Talk about the desired changes for the future using the present tense. For example, instead of saying" I'm going to do, "say" I'm accomplishing. "
8. It replaces the "YES" to "WHEN". For example, instead of saying "If I win I will travel money, "say" When I get to earn money to travel. "
9. Replaces" HOPE "by himself. For example, instead of saying" I hope to learn that "say" I know I'll learn that. " EXPECT raises doubts and weakens the language.
10. Replaces the "CONDITIONAL" at THIS. For example: Instead of saying "I want to thank her", say "Thank you for your presence." The present tense is stronger and concrete.
speak properly is very important. What sets us apart from animals is ordered that transmits sound wisdom, knowledge and communication skills. We need to keep in mind that learning to speak properly, positively, clearly, no double-meanings or swearing is a way for the control of our faculties, and using a little of that capacity we despise when using only a tenth of our divine power.

Solange Aparecida G. Savarego (author)